Marriage ?

I am sure all the women around the world will have something to say about marriages, expecially Indian women. I used to get freaked out if anyone mentioned marriage proposal. Being 25 and unmarried sounds unnatural to any Indian, to be more specific Keralites. I come from a family where all my aunts got married in their teens, some as early as 13 (back in 1950s) and their daughters got married when they were 18 - 20 and their kids are getting married now. I know, it makes me feel so old when my nieces are getting married.

I am at this stage and at an age where marriage is a big question mark. Do I want to get married or not? Is marriage the answer to all your questions? NO! There's a lot more in this world, so much left to explore. Marriage is just another step, a big responsiility. I am always worried whether I will marry the right guy. Life is just a big question mark right now. Too many dissappointments! That has a lot to do with going through a bad day! I wish I had my own time to find the person I want to share and spend my life with. Why does everything have to get complicated when you grow up? To all the girls out there, it's best you find your better half than leaving your choice to your parents. Atleast you do not have to go through so much ordeal, whether the groom's family liked you or not, or whether the horoscopes matched or not? People find so many reasons to say no to you, it could be your qualifications or lack of a masters degree, or it could be your height and weight, or it could be the way you smile, or it could be because you have short hair. Why do I have to go through this? No one has the right to judge me! No one's perfect!